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Everyone is Special ♥ Suatu hari, para hewan memutuskan untuk melakukan sesuatu yang heroik dengan mendirikan sekolah, agar mereka dapat mengatasi masalah – masalah “Dunia Baru”. Mereka mengadopsi kurikulum aktivitas yang terdiri dari kegiatan berlari, memanjat, berenang dan terbang. Agar pengelolaan sekolah lebih mudah, diputuskan bahwa seluruh hewan akan mengambil semua kegiatan. Bebek sangat mahir berenang, bahkan lebih baik daripada pelatihnya. Bebek juga sangat baik dalam kegiatan terbang, namun ia memiliki nilai rendah untuk kegiatan berlari. Bebek harus berhenti berlatih renang dan menambah jam latihan berlari setelah jam sekolah selesai. Ia terus berlatih keras untuk berlari hingga selaput di kakinya pun terasa lelah dan nilai renangnya menjadi rata – rata. Tetapi nilai rata – rata adalah sesuatu hal yang diterima di sekolah, sehingga tidak ada orang yang khawatir -kecuali si Bebek. 

June 2015 (2)

So, I Love You. Go. I used to think that someone I love (in terms of loving relationship), must give at least the same affection I gave to him –bigger much better. It’s fortunate that my-first–grown up loving relationship were with someone that has good skill of expressing care and affection. I’m feeling really blessed because he loved and cared for me so much. So this used-to-be-thought was stick with me for many years. Even though it was long-distance relationship (I just met him twice during our dating time), I gained many experiences –mostly exciting experiences. Not mention that we didn’t face challenges, we did. But, what I remember most were sweet memories I’ve spent with him.  The worst then came when our loving relationship was nearly end. I realized that it requires a lot of efforts and commitment when you want to build a strong and long-lasting relationship (end up being married and live happily ever after). Short story, I broke up with him and instantly start to

June 2015 (1)

Unconditional Love ♥ What is unconditional love literally means? Is it when you really didn’t expect anything in return when you love someone? When I think about it, even to the closest family member I doubt that I can apply this kind of love. So what is it? I think it’s really normal for human to love and to be loved. So when you love someone, you want to be loved back –and when you’re not, you feel disappointed. So what is it? What is unconditional love is all about? Is it when you don’t mind loving someone who don’t even bother your existence? Is it when you really didn’t care when someone you love just never give back anything to you? It’s true, we all wanted to be happy. It’s true, we feel happy too when seeing someone we love is happy. But, how come you still feel deeply happy when they just didn’t even think of you or remembering you? Is it unconditional love, or is it sacrificing your own desire to be loved?